How to become an Ex-Wife

"Lose yourself in your partner and watch you lose your partner."

My Theory…

I’m noticing the pattern with these famous “Ex Wives”. They all have lack of growth, but they’re all very supportive and dedicated to their men. They put so much energy and focus into there role as “The Supporter” they forget about themselves, which stunts their growth as an individual.

{With life changes, things and people will change so what worked for the past may not work for the future but in a marriage I believe you are suppose to agree on which changes to make or friction will start.}

As their husband’s reach success, they’re with them as the fully dedicated and supportive partner, and the husbands want them to stay that way but with money and success comes changes after a while the wives secretly want there own.

{This is where needs have to be met and egos have to be stroked. As “The Supporter” in the relationship thats all the wife is suppose to do and for that they are loved and taken care of but once the supportee a.k.a the husband, is no longer feeling supported they begin to seek support else where (cough cough) infidelity!}

It becomes hard for the wives to balance the support they provide for their husbands and for themselves. They’re so use to only giving their husbands support that they have deprived themselves and need to catch up in their own lives, create their own success but the husbands may feel like focusing on supporting their wives will take away from their own growth. Now the marriage becomes a relationship driven by selfishness instead of selflessness.

"What have you done for me lately?"

Hence why once they break up everything is about growth, and rediscovery for the women and for the men its just seeking a replacement for support, someone who will devote themselves to him. (most likely a young chick) Never really about love but getting to the next level. Its crazy how selfish we as humans have become, marriage is no longer a union but more of a business seeking loyal employees.

What do you think?

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Model Kamilla Stevens @millymill

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Model Kamilla Stevens @millymill

Getting Money Part II

"Money and success don’t change people; they merely amplify what is already there" Will Smith.

Sooooo if you’re unhappy broke you will be unhappier RICH?